Frederick James Rose III, a beloved community figure and devoted Deacon, passed away peacefully at his home in Redondo Beach, California, on January 22, 2026, at the age of 80. Born at Camp White near Medford, Oregon, he spent his formative years in Manhattan Beach, California, where he developed a lifelong commitment to service, compassion, and community engagement.
Fred’s educational journey began at American Martyrs and continued through Mira Costa High School and El Camino College. His early life was marked by a strong calling to serve others, which eventually led him back to the Catholic faith of his youth. He became a Deacon at American Martyrs Parish, where he made significant contributions to the local community and inspired many with his unwavering belief in love and understanding.
Throughout his life, Fred was actively engaged in various initiatives. He was a member of the Student American Federation of Teachers and remained a staunch advocate for workers’ rights as a committed Democrat. His personal life was equally rich; he met his wife, Suzie Alston, during their time in Student Government. Despite their differing political views, their relationship blossomed into a profound friendship and partnership that lasted for 37 years until her passing.
Following his graduation from high school, Fred joined the United States Naval Reserve, serving for seven years, including two years of active duty aboard the USS Orleck. His service earned him the Vietnam Service Medal and the National Defense Service Medal. After returning home, he dedicated over three decades to the United States Postal Service, where he was known for his commitment to serving the public.
In the early 1980s, Fred and Suzie rekindled their connection to American Martyrs, becoming integral members of the parish community. It was during this time that Fred felt a calling to the Diaconate. After extensive discernment and training, he accepted this permanent vocation, serving faithfully for 25 years. Even after retirement, he continued to volunteer and support ministry efforts, becoming a familiar and comforting presence at the Welcome Center.
Fred’s family remembers him as a man of gentle spirit and generous heart. His wisdom, encouragement, and quiet strength left a lasting impact on those fortunate enough to know him. The family expresses gratitude to Ariana and Matt Smith, Vanessa Reyes-Smith, and the American Martyrs team for their dedicated care during Fred’s later years, allowing him to remain in the community he cherished.
He is survived by his cousin, Rhonda; brother, Michael Rose; sister-in-law, Debbie Rose; and several nephews and nieces, including Michael (Vallarie) Rose, Jason Rose, Clinton (Dawn) Wolf, Brittany (Derrick) Moore, and Cindy Wolf (Keven McKenney). He also leaves behind numerous extended family members, friends, and parishioners who were touched by his presence.
Fred’s legacy of faith, service, and love will continue to resonate in the lives he influenced. He will be dearly missed by all. A Funeral Mass is scheduled for 2:30 PM on February 28, 2026, at American Martyrs Catholic Church in Manhattan Beach, California.
