Carolyn Mailliard Hacker, a cherished figure in San Rafael, California, passed away on November 21, 2025, at the age of 87 due to complications from Alzheimer’s disease. Hacker’s life was marked by her deep connections to the Bay Area and her unwavering commitment to her family and community.
A Life Rooted in Family and Community
Born in 1938 in San Francisco, Carolyn was the eldest daughter of J.W. Mailliard and Margaret Field. She was also the first granddaughter of Ward and Kate Mailliard, families with extensive ties throughout the region, including places like San Geronimo, Cotati, and Yorkville. These connections shaped her upbringing and remained significant throughout her life.
During her childhood, Carolyn traveled with her family as her father served in the United States Army. After World War II, they returned to San Francisco, where she attended KD Burke School and Katherine Branson Girls School. She later graduated from Connecticut College for Women, establishing a strong educational foundation that would influence her community involvement.
In 1963, Carolyn made San Rafael her home, a place where she would reside for over six decades. Her passion for gardening earned her recognition at the Marin County Fair, where she proudly showcased her award-winning plants. In addition to gardening, she enjoyed knitting and devoted herself to genealogy, meticulously researching her family’s history to preserve it for future generations.
A Legacy of Service
Carolyn’s commitment to her community was evident in her extensive volunteer work. From 1972 to 1980, she held various roles within the Miller Creek Elementary School District and the San Rafael City Schools District. Her dedication to education highlighted her belief in the importance of giving back to the community she loved.
Throughout her life, Carolyn was surrounded by her family and friends, who cherished her deeply. She is survived by her husband, Paul Hacker, her children, Barbara (Greg) and Lyn (Don), her grandchildren, Andrew (Katy), Chris, Emily (Mike), Amanda, and Kevin, and her great-granddaughter, Jocelyn. Additionally, she is survived by her sisters, Kathy and Margot, along with numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins.
In celebration of Carolyn’s life, a memorial event is planned for May 2026, coinciding with her birthday and Mother’s Day. The family requests that, in lieu of flowers, contributions be made to the San Rafael Public Library Foundation or the Marin Humane Society, organizations that align with Carolyn’s values and her commitment to community service.
Carolyn Hacker’s legacy will continue through the many lives she touched, embodying a spirit of kindness and dedication that will be remembered for years to come.
